Tell me a person who can honestly say that he/she had overcome homesickness, and I will be needing very badly his/her advice.
There will come a time when tears will just roll down your cheeks without you noticing it, and you’ll feel the pain upon realizing it. Homesickness attack – it is definitely real.
I am a believer of not resisting emotions, to overcome these. I’ve learned that these kind of emotions are meant to stay. You have to feel it. I guess to overcome it, you have to get rid of the factor(s) that triggers. For this respect, I need to go home to eliminate homesickness. This goes with the art of moving on. You have to fill the void. You have to accept the reality of the situation and go on with your life. I’m no expert in love, I broke someone’s heart the first time in the past and live with the pain that brought with it for some time. I eventually moved on but it’s a tough battle to overcome.. it’s a rock-bottom, so to speak.
Back in the day, I knew deep inside I’ve got to find my way out of the setback I am into. Acceptance is the key, that’s what worked in me. I don’t know with you, might’ve have something in your sleeve, care to share?
Going back to homesickness (*wink*), be glad you feel that way. It means you are well-loved, and the emotional attachment is tight. Don’t resist it, acknowledge it instead, and then find a way to keep in touch. It will not extinguish homesickness, but love will work it’s way in your heart and with the other end’s heart. Before you knew it, the beauty of love will know no limits. But of course, don’t talk about money, silly you 🙂